I have received an enormous amount of feedback from my last message, LOVE ATTRACTS LOVE AS LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE, as a result of people resonating with the philosophy in so many ways, but being unsure of how to make this a reality in their lives. Thus, I have decided to publish this blog post to enable all of BRANDNETITY to begin the process of attracting EVERLASTING LOVE. There is nothing in the world that brings more passion and joy than the emotion of LOVE. I believe LOVE is in a league of its own because it can be expressed in a multitude of ways. It can be shared with people, animals, opportunities, causes, purposes, movements, events, etc. Love is about transparency, which is why I have developed the acronym:
The “others” can be your career, relationships, hobbies, spirituality, and ultimately, YOURSELF. Because in order to immerse yourself in what you do, you must give everything you have and then some, while remaining congruent to who you are, what you stand for, and what makes you…YOU! With this being said, LOVE is a force “not to reckon with,” unless you take the time to assess how it will become part of your being. Love creates vitality and a sense of purpose in your world and in the lives of the receivers. Love enables you to awaken each morning with more enthusiasm and passion than the night before, as these emotions continue to develop throughout the day. Because when you love who you are, when you love what you do, when you love the people you share your life with, and you love LIVING, then in turn, you will have the courage to Let Others View Everything.
This article will be the impetus for me to complete a book because the lessons I am about to share will make your life noticeably different when implemented and acted upon. Therefore, this blog post is a brief synopsis of these concepts which will enable you to have the opportunity to initiate this process. The 7 Principles to Attract Everlasting Love will become a timeless phenomenon because they have been created as a result of analyzing people from all walks of life, and how they integrated the most foundational and fundamental emotion into their lives—LOVE!
It is important to realize that these seven principles will enable you to learn how to love life because once this dynamic revelation takes place, you will begin attracting an ideal suitor, dream career, desired physical image, and anything else that surfaces in your mind. For those of you who are already married or in a relationship with your soul mate, happily employed, or in perfect physical condition, it is important to embrace the philosophy of sharpening the saw. Determine how these principles can take your already incredible life, to the next level, so that you can experience breakthroughs and personal growth. Therefore, with no further adieu here are The 7 Principles to Attract Everlasting Love:
1. Silence is golden…by yourself
It is imperative that we provide ourselves with at least 30 minutes each day to listen to our own thoughts. Society has forced us to believe that the 86,400 seconds in each day must be lived in constant motion, where we exert all of our energies to “get things done.” But what I encourage you to understand is that these 30 minutes of silence will make your entire day more productive, as a result of the clarity which is achieved. You can use this time to think or simply just BE. The intent and the goal of these thirty minutes is to listen to your thoughts. It is critical to realize that if you implement this principle in your life tomorrow, NOTHING will change. It takes consistent effort and an overwhelming discipline to elicit the results that you desire. But remember, living a life with LOVE is worth the investment of days, months, and years, where you dedicate 30 minutes to SILENCE.
What time of the day will you make this investment?
2. Pursue a passion
We must have a cause or a purpose that is unique to who we are so that our life has meaning outside of our relationship, career, image, spirituality, etc. Pursuing a passion will enable you to achieve a greater sense of clarity, as you lose track of time during these activities. In addition, when you pursue a passion, you begin to connect with other people who share the same enthusiasm in their lives. When like-minded people are united for a common purpose, the result has the potential to eclipse our wildest dreams.
What enables you to lose track of time and place?
3. Spend time in self-talk
Communication is not only an external activity, but one that needs to be internalized as well. We need to focus our attention on speaking with ourselves, in essence, self-talk. What are the most consistent messages that are going through your head from your internal voices? If you are looking to attract everlasting love in your life, you must begin communicating with “thyself” and controlling what thoughts are permitted into your being.
What are you going to say to yourself today?
4. Synergy is the only option
The term compromise is one that I believe needs to be eliminated from our vernacular because whether it is our career, relationships, or spirituality, if we concede our beliefs and values, we will never reach our full potential. Synergy can be defined as a relationship with someone or something where the whole is greater than the sum of each individual part. It is essential to prevent compromise in your life; and instead, synergize in all areas by combining your energies and creating something that would have never been possible if acted upon alone.
What is the first relationship in your life that is in dire need of synergy?
5. Eliminate desperation and come from a position of power
When we operate from a desperate state of mind, whether that is the result of craving love from your spouse, longing for a career change, or yearning to lose weight, the desperation model will negatively influence your desired outcome. When we act out of despair, the choices we tend to make are completely contradictory to what we are looking to achieve. One of the techniques that I have used in order to circumvent this dilemma is to reach into my Emotional Savings Account in order to see how I handled a similar situation in the past. More often than not, the stresses of today, are barriers we have already surpassed years before. Therefore, access the strategy that worked for you then and implement it right now.
Where does desperation exist in your life?
6. Infuse Excitement
In order to achieve EVERLASTING LOVE, it is essential to infuse excitement into your life at least one time every thirteen days. If two weeks have passed, and you have not experienced something which has brought this emotion into your world, then I encourage you to do something extraordinary. Whether this is a simple call to a long lost friend or sky diving, human beings need exhilaration and the feeling that there heart is beating uncontrollably. Find what it is for you and start getting excited.
What makes you excited?
7. Tell yourself, “I Love You…”
Acknowledgment of oneself enables you to begin realizing what you deserve in life. Self-confidence is born from taking the time to love yourself and to communicate why this is the case on a regular basis. This concept is similar to incantations, where we adamantly proclaim, in an extremely repetitive and emotional manner, what we will accomplish in life, until it becomes ingrained in our psyche and nothing will prevent us from making it a reality. Therefore, take the time to express how you feel about YOU because these words of recognition will echo in your mind, spirit, and soul.
What makes you proud about you?
These seven principles will take time to integrate into your life and I encourage you to give yourself the permission to implement each tenant when the time is right for you. Please do not read this message and force all of these changes upon yourself over night, because the result could be disastrous as your desired outcome will not be achieved, and you may consider giving up on your quest for LOVING LIFE. Therefore, spend as much time as you need adopting each principle, and then making it your own so that you can attract EVERLASTING LOVE!
When will you begin?
What does this mean to you? Please leave a comment.
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Jared, This gives me a push of adrenaline, reading the 7 principles. I get that when I know something is right on. The 7 principles are right on—and myself and others need no more and no less to begin it—just a small decision and a first step.
I appreciate who you are, and appreciate this inspiration coming from you.
I am so happy that you resonated with these principles and I firmly believe, because I have seen it happen before, that these tenants will attract EVERLASTING LOVE. Keep on doing wonderful things in this world Mike and I know only greatness will enter into your existence!
Hi Jared – interesting, thanks – It seems in all things it starts with us – not them. Self-ownership, self-reflexivity, and self-courage, self-development etc. Change the self and you change your experience of the world.
The body gets addicted to molecules of emotion and once we have this addiction, the body will seek out, through behavior to get its fixed, so why not get addicted to Love (we all have addictions – they are in us by nature) and thus you will move out in the right direction to find the right love.
I love this concept of addicted to LOVE, especially when the love is internal in nature. This happens to be an emotion that has become bastardized by society because it is often delivered without the intention and attention to the receiver. Love is born inside all of us, but in order to allow this force to penetrate the universe, we must allow it to become our own. It is a lonely place on top of the world when you have no one to celebrate with, especially when you are unable to celebrate with yourself. This is why LOVE is–”Self-ownership, self-reflexivity, and self-courage, self-development etc. Change the self and you change your experience of the world.”
Amazing…amazing…amazing!
As a relationship expert and author, I really appreciate the focus on the self as the source of everlasting love. Your principle about desperation is so accurate. Unfortunately, many people look “out there” to find the answer when going internal is the only solution. Thanks for sharing this important message.
You nailed it! Love from within…creates LOVE for others…thank you for sharing your thoughts!
Interesting read, Jared.
My perspective is what you are calling everlasting love is rather short lived – as it exists no longer than you breathe.
However, John 3:16 may give you a different insight into “everlasting love.”
He Loves You with an Everlasting Love!
Thank you for sharing your perspective and contributing to the IDENTITY REVOLUTION!
With thanks –
1. Be real – remove the rose glasses
2. Honest – core honesty the words that hurt – but know when to say them
3. Forgive – letting go allows love in
4. Passion – driven by something bigger than yourself
5. Let GO – Control kills love
6. Give – give more of yourself – appreciate when you receive
7. Acceptance – understand the difference -when it is about you, AND someone else
I love this Tracy because it simplifies a concept that is often misconstrued as complex…..wonderful share!