Step Into FREAKIN Action!
Your growth is predicated on your ability to get out of your head, get out of your heart, and get into FREAKIN action! - Jared Yellin
I know this statement might ruffle some feathers but before you completely tune me out, let’s dig into each piece…
Your growth is predicated on your ability to get out of your head, get out of your heart, and get into FREAKIN action!
WHY you must get out of your head…
Your head is a magical place but when you get stuck…
YOU ARE STUCK!
People spend way too much time in their head analyzing, over analyzing, and over over analyzing time and time again…
“What will people think about me…”
“What if it does not work...”
“What if I should play it safe…”
“What if they don’t think I am attractive...:”
“What if they don’t like my style of writing…”
“What if they think I am not fit for the job…”
“What if they don’t want to go on a second date…”
This list could go on and on and on and for many people it does…
WHAT IF can be your greatest asset…
Or
Your WORST CURSE!
Your HEAD is your safe haven…
Your HEAD is your anchor…
Your HEAD is the one of the reasons why you don’t have what you want because you remain STUCK in it…
The key…
USE your HEAD for the benefits AND eliminate what is preventing you from getting what you want and when you want to get it…(you will see this addressed below!)
WHY you must get out of your heart…
“Wait a second, Jared is telling me to get out of my heart, I thought I was supposed to furiously pursue my passions.”
Okay time for a point of clarification….
Your PASSION and your HEART are correlated but not mutually correlated which means that your passion DOES live in your heart, but YOU should not.
Just like your head, your heart is magical but you CAN’T GET STUCK…
People spend way too much time using their heart as their crutch and it sounds like this…
“I don’t want to tell someone that I am not interested…”
“I don’t want to stand up for what I believe in…”
“I don’t want to stand up for myself and get walked over instead…”
“I don’t want to ask for my full value because I just love what I do…”
“I don’t want people to think I am only in this for the money…”
“I don’t want to address my significant other and speak my truth…”
“I don’t want to tell someone they wronged me…”
Listen - YOUR HEART IS BEAUTIFUL, but it is also the second reason why people don’t get what they want and there is an over-abundance of people who live in their heart and they are broke, struggling, and seeking without ever finding anything meaningful.
Being stuck in your heart means that someone other than you will get what they want but you won’t and if I was you - I would commit this moment to become UNstuck because it’s either WIN WIN or NO WIN!
The key…
Use the POWER OF YOUR HEART, which I will address in a moment, but ELIMINATE THE EXCUSE OF YOUR HEART because it’s literally impossible to have the life you want and deserve if you are stuck in your heart.
WHY you must get into freaking action…
Okay, this is where your eyeballs might start to sweat…
This is where you might get parched…
This is where your nerves might kick in because I am going to help you eliminate TWO places that create artificial safety…(Your Head + Your Heart)
IT’S TIME FOR FREAKIN ACTION - WOOOOOAHHHHHHH!!!!
FREAKIN Action looks like progress...
FREAKIN Action looks like momentum…
FREAKIN Action looks like actually getting what you want…
And it sounds like this…
“I am committed to XYZ today…”
“My truth must be revealed…”
“I will not settle…”
“My code is firm…”
“I won’t stop until XYZ happens…”
“I will hold on and never give up…”
“I will pivot if needed…”
FREAKIN Action means you make the call that your head is preventing you from making…
FREAKIN Action means you boldly address someone who is wronging you…
FREAKIN Action means you get on Facebook Live and spread your truth…
FREAKIN Action means you demolish the goals you have set for yourself…
FREAKIN action might appear more difficult in the beginning, but I promise you that it will become progressively easier in the mid to long-term because you will be in motion and momentum builds on momentum…
But here’s the key....
START!
Developing a FREAKIN action plan which includes DAILY progress…
Steps…
Movement…
Declarations…
Commitments...
Whatever you want to call it - call it - but it all looks the same…
Moving in the direction of what YOU want and NOT negotiating with yourself or getting stuck in your head or your heart!
WHY there is benefit to both your head and heart IF and ONLY IF you are also in the zone of FREAKIN action...
Okay, now I am going to confuse you…
Your Head + Your Heart have MASSIVE value - just don’t get stuck in them either - use them because they offer a TON of value for your FREAKIN action plan…
And here’s how…
The benefit of your HEAD is that you can be in constant thinking mode…
Analyze everything, but don’t remain stuck.
Play out “if...then” statements, but don’t wait for then...act now!
Innovate and iterate as long as you are testing.
Your head is the logical component of your FREAKIN ACTION PLAN and it will serve you AS LONG AS you set boundaries…
THINK - ACT
THINK - ACT
THINK - ACT
Cool?!?!
Okay, now for the benefits of your HEART…
Your HEART is your emotional contribution to your FREAKING ACTION PLAN and it happens to play a vital role…
Feel how people will feel once you take action…
React quickly to how people react and take action…
Filter opportunities based on how they make you feel and then take action…
The key is to NOT allow “being in your heart” to become the reason why you don’t have what you want…
Because there is nothing that is more hurtFUL than making a TON of money and creating a TON of impact at the same time….BUT
The only way is through FREAK ACTION…
So here’s the equation…
Your HEAD + Your HEART + MASSIVE FREAKING ACTION = GETTING WHAT YOU WANT!
And for the record…
If I disturbed you it’s only because you are either TOO MUCH in your head, heart or both so BE DISTURBED and TAKE ACTION!
Live with Intention,
JY