“Asking for help is one of the single greatest self mastery assessments because this means you feel worthy enough for someone to invest their time, energy, money, and/or emotion into you.”
- Jared Yellin
If you had to decide between residing in a dark place by not asking for help or experiencing light by asking for help - which would it be?
If you had to choose between living in anxiety by not asking for help or living in bliss by asking for help - which would it be?
If you had to decide between suffering and asking for help - which would it be?
I am shocked by the number of people who go through life feeling the deepest level of pain, discomfort and overwhelm because they are hopeless, lost, or resource drained.
Many of these people spiral out of control…
Many of these people begin to self-sabotage…
Many of these people step into darkness…
For whatever reason…
We have been conditioned that asking for help is a sign of weakness…
We have been told that asking for help will lead to feelings of guilt…
We have been convinced that asking for help will make us vulnerable…
But…
What if asking for help was your catalyst…
What if asking for help became your beacon of hope…
What if asking for help solved your challenge and gave the person who was able to help an opportunity to fulfill their desire…
WHAT IF?
What if asking for help was a sign of power?
What if asking for help was an example of strength?
What if asking for help allowed you to experience worth?
I have very strong opinions on ASKING for what you need because I believe there is a universal energy that implants WIN WIN outcomes in our lives as long as we execute on the idea, thought, or circumstance when it’s presented.
I believe that when someone NEEDS help and they ASK for it that the person they ASKED for HELP was in a position where HELPING is what they NEEDED.
Please read this again…
I believe that when someone NEEDS help and they ASK for it that the person they ASKED for HELP was in a position where HELPING is what they NEEDED.
This means that if you are stuck, down in the dumps, need resources, etc. and the universe PINGS YOU and says - “Ask John Doe for help…”
Don’t ignore this message…
Don’t suppress this sign…
Don’t turn your shoulder because of your ego…
ASK for help because when John Doe popped in your mind as someone that can help it’s because John Doe CAN help and by helping you he is helping himself as well.
If you knew that the person who was helping you was actually helping themselves while helping you - would you ask?
The key to all of this is self-worth…
When you feel WORTHY of someone investing their time, energy, money, and/or emotion into you then you will ASK…
And until then…
You will ignore those universal signs…
You will wallow in your pain and discomfort…
You will feel isolated and alone…
You are WORTHY to ASK…
You are MEANT to THRIVE…
Your TIME is NOW!
Live with Intention,
